The Pinkysil I use is only Shore 20. When you say deform do you mean permanently deform - the silicone or just the cast? The silicone should spring back to shape no problem. This is different to tapping the mould though. The point of tapping is to loosen the tiny bubbles. The aim of squeezing is to force out the larger bubbles and air pockets that get trapped.
Baby powder should be ok instead of talc. There is a small chance of complications due to the perfumes in it, but if it's worked so far then it's probably fine
The wood thing is indeed just a precaution. I'm pretty sure here in sub-tropical latitudes of Australia the resin sucks up more moisture from the air than it ever will from a mixing stick.
On a related note, are they called paddle-pop sticks anywhere else?
Oh yeah I can make that....